Day 13 in Zambia
I am starting to feel like I am settling into life and work here in Meheba. I’ve met with the FHS (FORGE Health Services) staff a couple times now and have my projects for the summer lined up. I’m diving into reviewing the health education curriculum and looking forward to seeing the other clinics in camp and how the FORGE health centers interact with the Ministry of Health services. I have a pretty good idea of how to get to all the places I need to go and am grateful to see familiar faces when I am outside of the FORGE compound.
I will admit that I can seriously get used to this schedule. I feel so much happier without the frenetic pace I maintain back in the States. Here, most days I can wake up whenever my body has had enough rest, go for a long run or head off to a meeting after making breakfast, come home to Alice with lunch ready and bathing water heated on the braizier (our coal stove thingy), then get some work done on my computer and read. The evening is spent with making dinner, watching movies on Jeremy’s laptop, and more reading before heading off to bed early.
Today, I even took a break from updating the dehydration curriculum to head across the road to check out a rehearsal for the performances for World Refugee Day. It is going to be an awesome event this Sunday. I am so glad that I am here for this. The refugees in Meheba have been working so hard for weeks and there will be lots of diplomats and representatives from the embassies, UN, and Lusaka visiting the settlement for the day.
Day 15 in Zambia
The quiet tonight has moved me to tears. Jeremy left with his father and brother for their three week tour of Africa, and the bustling activity of the past couple days has dropped off into the most incredible quiet I’ve ever heard. I am sitting in the middle of our courtyard listening to the crickets hum, while Jambo and Chindele play, chasing each other up trees and getting into the general mischief that these cats do. Faintly in the background I hear the voices of our guards talking just beyond the gate… I find it comforting, despite being in no danger here. And, as I tilt my head back I can see the most beautiful starry night, framed by the roof and treetops of our compound. It certainly is a sight to see. Without all the noise and distractions that I experience in the States, I can hear every noise… every rustle of leaves as the gentle night wind blows, every footstep outside… and I sit here in awe of the simple beauty of life… grateful that God has bestowed upon humankind the greatest gift – the ability to be moved by creation.
I had an incredible day. Of course nothing went as planned. When I went to the FHS office to finally take inventory of supplies, no one was there. So I came back home to continue working on updating curriculum. After heading across the street to the home of one of the FHS staff to get a key to the office, I collected my reading material for the weekend – some pamphlets on basic first aid, a nutrition textbook, and a book about village health called “Where There is No Doctor”. After lunch I decided to get out and explore a bit. As I am becoming more and more comfortable here, I am venturing out further into the camp on my own. I decided that I would ride my bike down the road I normally run, to see what is further down that road. On the way, I ended up running into one of the FORGE staff on his way to F block. I spent the afternoon with him. We rode together down (more accurately, up) the hilly path and talked. Once we arrived in F, he showed me around. We stopped to visit a friend who had just given birth to a baby boy four days ago. As we chatted, she placed the baby in my arms… there is nothing in the world like the feeling of holding a baby. We also visited the health center, school, and Catholic church. It was wonderful to sit on the steps of the church and have a long talk about the world – about the U.S., Zambia, the Congo, the nature of human beings, our responses in times of grief and loss, and our need to feel connected to other human beings. On a side note, we also had a very interesting discussion (well more like we sat and listened to a monologue) of a slightly inebriated old man, who probably shouldn’t be drinking as much as he does for the job he holds in the community. It was a little concerning, but mostly entertaining, and we just smiled knowingly and laughed as we hopped back on our bikes and he showed me the way back to the road that would lead me home.
Another side note: Chindele has decided that the best place to be right now is my lap… which considering I am working on a laptop balanced on my knee, is making typing this entry very interesting. She is purring so loud… I don’t know how such a little thing can make so much noise. Lucky for her, she is too cute for me to kick off her perch. Plus I am grateful for the extra warmth and the company.
I have been thinking a lot about relief and development work lately. On the one hand, there is much work to be done and many impassioned people desiring to make some positive impact in our world. On the other hand, the reality of this work is that a lot of it is pretty fucked up. Despite good intentions, you still have to contend with incompetency and politicking. And sometimes it’s the good intentions that do the most damage… making people dependent on aid and plunging economies and nations into further chaos. I read a book recently called The Road to Hell and the author pretty much argues that relief and development work is a self-serving industry that does more harm than good in this world. He makes some good points. Despite the fact that reality is never as romantic and heroic as a Hollywood movie, I am not discouraged. The truth is the same Truth there is in any situation in any part of the world. There’s a lot of bullshit, but there’s also a lot of goodness. I think it is important to acknowledge and learn from mistakes, moving forward with a positive outlook, but objective grasp of reality. I can understand why some bleeding heart do-gooder who wants to emulate the heroicism seen in movies about white people going into third world countries to act as saviors might have their spirit broken by a reality that falls short of their expectations. Sometimes I even wonder about my own motivations. Am I drawn to this work based on some small desire to selfishly fulfill a fantasy to be the hero? Am I just looking for adventure in the “heart of darkness”, thinking that I can be a beacon of light? I cannot dismiss that possibility and must acknowledge my human weaknesses in order that I can keep them in check. But the thing that drives me forward are moments like I had this afternoon. The connection that two strangers can have, becoming friends as they talk about what they hope for the world, their communities, and their own lives. The human spirit is incredible – something to be admired, cherished, and fought for with everything we do. Though the world can be a pretty messed up place, there is beauty and hope in the resiliency in the hearts of people. As my new friend said today, “We are all human beings.”
“Perhaps we are all refugees from something. But I see now there is nothing to fear – that the world we hold onto, the lives we cherish, are a part of something greater… something more. When I look at my children I see it so clearly – that hope, that chance of life – and I know it’s worth fighting for.” – From Beyond Boundaries
Day 18 in Zambia
What a weekend! Sunday was World Refugee Day and there was a big event here in Meheba to celebrate. People from all over the settlement had been working together on the performances for weeks and it was great to see the final production. Our friend who had been coordinating the performance is an incredible artist and had a wonderful vision for what this day meant and how to portray it. The theme this year was “Home”. Some of the people who live in Meheba have had a very transient concept of “home”. Many of them fled their homes, maybe even living in other refugee camps before coming to Meheba. Now they wait, wondering where their next home will be. Will they be repatriated? Will they be resettled in Australia, Europe, or the U.S.? Will they be allowed to integrate into Zambia, the country that many of the “refugees” have lived in for years, decades… some even their whole lives? Home is not a physical location. Home is what you carry with you inside yourself. Home is where your heart feels safe. Home is where your family and loved ones are. I’ve had a lot of discussions with people about my thoughts on “home” in the past week or so. Some have been confused about why I would want to call Africa my home someday. They can’t understand my lack of attachment to the physical place where I grew up. I feel at home here. This is where I am most happy… where I feel most myself. But, there is nothing like the feeling of coming “home” to your family. I think about how many years I spent living in a different city than the people that love me most and how much it meant to finally come home to them. Just thinking about getting a hug from my mom or eating my grandmother’s food makes me feel happy. That is the feeling of “home”. Safety… security… contentment. I carry my family in my heart, no matter where I lay my head at night. I know who I am. I know where I come from. I know what I hold dear. Home is within me.
I made many new friends yesterday. Not only were my neighbors (the refugees that live in Meheba) at the event, but also people from UNHCR (some familiar faces… some not), dignitaries from the embassies, Zambians from Lusaka, and even Zambian pop stars (and yes, they are just as ridiculous as American pop stars... hehe). I met an incredible group of young people who came from Lusaka with our Zimbabwean/French artist friend (the one that coordinated the performances). I met a journalist who also works with tobacco control measures and is working with a group of journalists to become well-informed and responsible with their public health reporting. He has many connections in health in Zambia and we made arrangements to see each other again before I leave and to keep in touch. One of the bands that performed is an amazing group of talented artists. They are now our new friends and I have really enjoyed the time we were able to spend together. One of the singers and I talked for the longest time. She and I have a lot in common and became quick friends. Another band member just got accepted into a university in Oregon to study civil engineering and architecture, so we will be keeping in touch so he will have a friend in the States once he is so far from home. We even sat around as a group and jammed together. Some playing guitar, some playing drums, and the rest of us singing. I love the way a group of people can just come together and create something so natural and organic. It was great to sing Bob Marley songs and old gospel hymns. I must say that I was especially moved by our rendition of Amazing Grace. I felt like for a minute I was with my friends at Bay Church, worshipping together. We even played a game where one person played a tune on the guitar and another picked someone to create an impromptu song on a specific topic. Mine was “If I was an alien”. I was amazed at how naturally something just came out of me. I sang a silly song about being away from home and feeling like an alien as the outsider… wondering if the people around me thought I was an alien as well.
While the day was mostly fun and enjoyable, certain things did highlight some of the injustices and nonsensical decisions and actions that I’ve come to be very familiar with while doing development work. The reality is that there are many Truths. It is true that there are people with beautiful spirits who are a part of a greater movement to bring peace and community to a broken world. There is power in love, and knowledge, and art. It is also true that this broken world allows “power” to be defined by money, titles, brute force, and skin color. I cannot save the world. I cannot change everything that I see wrong in it. All I can do is my part to be an example of love and let God use me in whatever small purpose I am meant to have. I am not the only one with a vision of peace and love and collaboration. There is a current, an energy flowing through civilization, through communities all over the world, and it will continue to spread and inspire. There is love… and it is the center of everything.
Today it was back to work. I rode all the way out to F to help measure maize. We have two clients in that block that were a part of our agricultural loans program. We gave them seed and fertilizer and now that the harvest is here, we are collecting repayment in maize. Both clients turned in all of their maize and it looked like they had a very good harvest. By the end of the month we will have maize from all 25 clients. It is quiet in that part of Meheba. There aren’t a lot of people that live there. But, I like visiting F, even if it is a tough bike ride to get there. I got to practice my French and Swahili, which was fun. And we had some interesting conversations (in three languages!) about religion and marriage and families. Even though I was home before 2pm, I was BEAT. It’s amazing how tired you get working here… even if you are only able to do one thing in a day.
Day 20 in Zambia
My thoughts and emotions have been all over the place the last 24 hours or so. I have been thinking a lot about the experience of refugees and my own experience and feelings about being so far from home. I am reading an incredible book called Human Cargo by Caroline Moorehead. If you want to learn more about the experience of refugees all over the world and why I am so passionate about working with this population, you MUST read this book. While I have been devouring most of the books I have read in the past couple weeks, this one has been a struggle to get through quickly. It is dense with emotion and difficult to take in more than a little at a time.
Yesterday I finally felt the subtle ache of homesickness. It has been a week and a half, I think, since I had internet access and contact with friends or family. I want to talk to my best friend… to share with her every moment that my heart is heavy with sorrow and the things that make me feel like I could burst with joy. I want to be comforted by my mother’s voice and be held safely in her arms. I want to eat dinner at my grandmother’s house at a table surrounded by family. I want to hear stories of my own history, my family’s stories of our ancestors and their own journey to a new home in America.
I think that might be why my heart is so connected to the experience of refugees. Every time I read about or hear someone’s story, I think of my own family. I try to imagine what my ancestors experienced in Armenia so many years ago. I think about the miracle that my great-grandparents escaped the genocide and found themselves in the U.S. As children, did they understand what had happened to their family… why they were in this new and unfamiliar land? What memories did they retain of their home? How did they manage to survive and thrive, assimilating into a new culture and starting a family that would grow into the people that I call my own? What would they think of their lineage… the incredible achievements of their children, grand-children, and great-grandchildren? Would they be proud of me? Is this what they had hoped for when they started new lives in America?
Sometimes I can relate on some small level to the loneliness and isolation that a refugee feels in a foreign land. There is a reason that I am here… something that this strange place can offer that my home cannot. But, I wonder if I will ever “belong” anywhere. I am not entirely content at home, but I am not entirely at home here. I feel like no matter how much my heart is bound to this land, I can never truly call Africa “my own”. It does not belong to me. I have no history here. But, I have chosen to be a “refugee”. I live in a voluntary state of exile. These refugees that I have come to know as my friends and neighbors crossed borders to find safety and security. I, on the hand, ran from it. Does this make me crazy? Some people here look at me as though I am when I tell them that I want to live in “the bush” in Africa more than I want to live in the U.S. I am like the strange bird flying north for the winter, right into the cold instead of following the rest to the warmth of the south.
Whenever I start to crave some comfort of home, I find that the feeling goes away quickly once I get out of the house and into the community here. Yesterday I decided that I should hop on my bike and head to Road 36. I got a few things from the market and then decided to stop and have a cup of tea with the Somalis. I made friends with the Somali woman that speaks English very well. We sat and talked for a long time. She asked my advice on a referral she got from the Solwezi General Hospital for surgery and we talked about her problems with gallstones and the surgeries she had to give birth to the last four of her seven children. She told me about missing Somalia (especially the food that is familiar to her and her extended family) and why she and her family had to leave. She talked about the experience of a Somali in a settlement that is largely populated by Angolan and Congolese refugees. She talked about her husband’s death from TB and the pressure of raising her children on her own without family around. We were joined by a man and continued our conversation, talking about life in Meheba and the relationship between the refugees and the UNHCR and the Zambian government.
There is nothing like listening to the story of another person to put your own into perspective. I can never understand the loneliness of being a refugee. I can never understand the state of limbo and uncertainty in which they live and the pressure that creates.